HAPPY 12TH BIRTHDAY!
12 years ago on an extremely hot day our lives changed forever with a simple phone call. You were here, you were born, you were ours. As you know I forgot to ask our caseworker if you were a boy or a girl and then spent two hours driving to the baby store even though it was only twenty minutes away. Our lives were instantly changed, for the better. You were here. You, our incredible daughter, made your debut.
12 years ago social media was just getting started and people did not live their lives out loud like they do now so we made phone calls, sent emails, and cried happy tears screaming, "It's a girl!" to all our family. 12 years ago, you made everyone that loves you happier and you haven't stopped adding joy to all our lives.
This year from eleven to twelve you had some big bumps. Life hurdles that even adults have had a hard time coping with, but you handled them with style and grace. When you then mixed in some serious preteen attitude you were able to overcome each and every obstacle thrown your way. I literally have watched you grow from girl to young lady in a blink of an eye. I am fully in disbelief that my baby, the one I would let no one hold or feed for six months (maybe more), is twelve.
Twelve. How in the world are we here?
On this twelfth birthday I want you to know that I know you will accomplish every single dream you have. I believe you literally will change this world. Your stubborn attitude, your independent thinking, and your heart will take you where ever you choose to go....even if that choice is A&M. (Hook 'em)
Your mind is brilliant. You are smart, witty, inquisitive, and have a desire to learn that is unmatched. From the time you were able to sit up you have wanted to be engaged in all things educational. There is not a book, article, paper you won't read. There is not a lesson you won't listen to. There is not a stone left to be uncovered when it comes to you finding answers. Your quest for knowledge is admirable and it is that knowledge that makes you so powerful.
You are compassionate, generous, sincere, an old soul. You stand for all that is good in this world and I have enjoyed watching you learn to debate what you believe to be true. You fight for the underdog, take people at their word, and are loyal. You are a true friend. In this past year you have learned the difference between friends and acquaintances. You have learned what it means to show someone you care. You have learned the beauty of girlfriends and how a simple FaceTime call filled with laughter can fill your cup.
You are an incredible sister. Sure, she can be annoying and you can dish out some zingers, but you are truly a cheerleader for her. I have seen you grow more understanding as you mature and I know that sister bond will never break. I am proud of how you encourage her, watch out for her, and make sure that she is treated equitably. I know you are excited for middle school, but respect how you will still listen and tell your sister she will be just fine without you in elementary school. Your word is gold to her and I have seen you become careful with those words.
At twelve we now get to joke around and dish out sarcastic comments. I am loving this new phase of our mother/daughter relationship. I love singing Top 40 songs in the car with you, making fun of daddy, and laughing about the dumbest things. It has been awesome this year getting to laugh with you. When you laugh, your whole face smiles and reminds me what a beautiful person you are - inside and out. Your personality has come out of its shell and even though you think we are different, our humor is the same. You love to laugh and as you grow older you will learn to keep humor in your life for laughter is the best medicine.
At twelve you are entering middle school and due to Covid you must start school on line. It's not ideal and you're less than thrilled, but you will crush it. You will do more than survive middle school. You will continue to soar because you, my amazing daughter, take no bullshit. (Yep, at twelve I get to write profanity in your birthday letter.) You do not play games, you do not accept dishonesty, and you definitely do not allow people to walk all over you. You have high standards for those you keep close to your heart and while those standards may cause some disappoint, they will allow you to grow as an individual and only align yourself with those that will stand with you.
I am beyond proud of who you are and who you continue to become. I watch in awe as you navigate life with more elegance than most can muster. You are truly a gift from G-d. Before you turn thirteen, you will have your Bat-Mitzvah. I cannot believe we will celebrate this momentous occasion this year. Your excitement after each Bat-Mitzvah lesson lets me know not only do you have faith and trust in G-d, but you truly do understand the importance of this milestone. I am already overjoyed at how you've embraced this chapter in your life and continue to show enthusiasm each week. This will be one of life's biggest blessings and I am thrilled it is happening for you.
While I know your are beginning the last year before you are teenager and I know some days you do not want to grow up, I want you to remember you will always be my little girl. There will never be a day you cannot cry, stomp your feet, or throw a temper fit. I will love you through it all. I will continue to hug you even though you are almost as tall as me. I will continue to tuck you in, say our prayer, and check on you in the middle of the night to make sure you are breathing.I will wipe your tears and even wipe your face because apparently braces have made you messier.
Happy 12th birthday to the the young lady that keeps me on my game and keeps my heart filled with love. I love you more today than yesterday.
May all your wishes come true.
May all your wishes come true.